What is Voyeurism?

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Voyeurism is something that causes people to receive at type of sexual gratification whenever they spy on another person that is getting undressed or is engaging in sexual activity. It does not always have to be sexual. Sometimes, somebody that is into voyeurism will get turned on by watching somebody else go to the bathroom. Basically anything that is considered a private act.

Non Consensual

The issue with voyeurism is that they prefer it to be without the other person knowing. This means that it is not consensual and is therefore illegal. Because it is illegal, voyeurism is something that is typically frowned upon. However, there are ways to go about enjoying this interest without it being illegal.

Legal Options

Many people that are into voyeurism will enjoy dogging. They will be able to watch people engage in sexual activities. Whenever they are setting up the meet, they can see if there are any couples that are willing to act as though they are not aware that they are being watched. This is something that can also be done at swingers clubs and meetings. Because the biggest attraction with voyeurism is watching people that are unaware that they are being watched the voyeur will simply need to meet with couples that do not mind pretending to be unaware of their audience. Wherever there are people that are willing to have sex or engage in any private acts with people watching, voyeurs will be able to watch them legally and safely.

Exhibitionism – The Basics

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Exhibitionism is the act of showing others who may not be expecting it your genitals. There are several forms of exhibitionism out there, and not a single definition may fit any one person. If you are interested in learning more about this, here are a few types of exhibition to become aware of.


This is the oldest form, and probably the one that gets more people in trouble in every year. This involves opening up your clothing to reveal your body parts to unsuspecting subjects. Girls gone wild videos are a good example of this.

Hidden Exhibitionism

To combat some of the legalities associated with flashing, this form of exhibistionism came in to existence to provide the same thrill without the legal implications. For women this may be wearing a shirt with no bra, and allowing your nipples to be easily seen while still covered. For men it could be walking around without underwear. This is more common with women than with men.

Sexual Exhibitionism

This is the act of having sex of masturbating in an area where other people may see. It’s more common for this to happen in areas where being caught is possible but unlikely. This allows a couple to experience the thrill without being arrested.

Other Forms

There are many other niches with this. Driving while partially nude or masturbating is one popular form. Others may include hotel exhibitionism, which involves walking around hotel corridors in the nude, library exhibition, and cruise exhibition.

Making Videos

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Practical Advice for Homemade Porn

Sometimes nothing can be hotter than watching yourself with your partner. A homemade video can be a great way to enjoy this without going public. There are a few ways you can make a great video.


While many people prefer sex in the dark, this is going to be impossible for a good video. Keep lots of lights on. Having a small handheld light can also help with capturing the hottest moments.

Types of Cameras

While a stationary camera on a tripod will allow you to hands-free, it won’t do much in way of getting closeups and different positions. A handheld camera is really the best way to go. This way you can switch the camera back and forth between the two of you and grab closeup shots of the important things.

Length of Video

You’ll get bored with a very long video. Try to keep it at around 30 minutes, and be sure to include several different positions. This way it’s fun to make and fun to watch later.

Be Clear on Expectations

Many people are afraid to make videos because they don’t want them to end up on the internet, some like it to be seen by many and will want it to end up on a Swinger Tube. Before you decide to make a sex tape, be sure you are both on the same page regarding what will happen with the actual footage. Many people choose to watch it once, then delete it forever. Others will choose to stick to one copy that gets destroyed should the relationship not work out later.

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